By Dalia Davis, UPROOTED: A Jewish Response to Infertility
This past month has been a time of birth. My venture began with its conception which occurred in the privacy of my own thoughts after trying for a few months. After the thrill of a successful conception and discovering a positive response in my email in the form of an acceptance letter from PresenTense, the gestation period began. During this time my vision for this venture grew and developed, and was impacted by the advice of those in my inner circle—my mentor, coach, colleagues, and cohort. However, after carrying this venture close to my heart for many months, it came time for my venture to enter the world. I realized I need to experience birthing pains and allow others to meet my venture, secretly hoping they will treat her with compassion and love. As I created my website and put my thoughts in the public domain I found myself experiencing both excitement and anxiousness wondering how my venture will fair in the world.
By Dalia Davis, The Akara Project
This year the world lost an icon in the Israeli music world, Arik Einstein (z”l). With his passion for social change and idealistic spirit he composed the well-known song Ani V’ata Neshaneh et Ha’olam (You and I will change the world). As my fellow PresenTense fellows and I looked to this song for inspiration in a seminar on Visioning, one line in particular jumped out at me. “Ani v’ata ne’naseh mehatchalah” (you and I will start at the beginning). As we progressed through the seminar and attempted dreaming, designing, and articulating our visions, it became very clear to me that my visions for The Akara Project are long range and riveting. With my suitcase full of plans for my venture, I am very much at the beginning of a journey. According to Einstein, a very appropriate place to start.
However, the beginning is not always the most comfortable and pleasant place. In this seminar, we characterized beginnings as Egypt—the place that one must leave in order to travel through the wilderness and arrive in the Promised Land. I see and hear this Egypt often. The other day I stood next to a woman struggling with infertility while another woman asked her advice about what to name the child she was carrying in her womb. Shortly thereafter, I was with another woman who has been trying to conceive for years and witnessed another woman ask her how long she’s been married, express surprise when hearing the high number, and go on to share with great pride that she bore three children in three years. These women are in Egypt. As long as we remain a community in which we cease to educate ourselves and our members towards a greater level of sensitivity, we are all in Egypt together. It is time to get out and begin our journey.
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